considerate : 指能设身处地为别人着想，给予同情或谅解。
- She is always polite and considerate towards her employees.
- It was very considerate of him to wait.
thoughtful : 指为他人着想，主动关怀，做有益于他人的事。
- It was very thoughtful of you to send the flowers.
- a thoughtful and caring man.
attentive : 指对人关怀备至，热情周到，这可能出于真诚，也可能出于私利。
- The hotel staff are friendly and attentive.
- At society parties he is attentive to his wife.